Updated May 8, 2022
Books
Sexual Alchemy, Donald Tyson
Unfortunately out of print, but copies can be found for those who really want to read it. This book contains one of the best historical overviews of spirit-human relationships throughout the centuries. Probably the most scholarly work on this list, Tyson has taken great care to document his interactions with amorous spirits and the methods through which he made contact.
Highly recommended as a primer on sexual spirits and their history.
Liber Lilith, Donald Tyson
Alleged to be an ancient Gnostic grimoire, retelling the old creation myth with Lilith at the center of it all. This volume is bewitching, and possibly very dangerous in the wrong hands. The pull and draw of succubi is undeniable while reading this fascinating work. Is it fiction? Maybe, though I’ve felt its effects from reading my copy.
This book contains some rituals that would be quite illegal if performed literally. As with any descent down the Left-Hand Path, the operator must walk that fine line between insanity and illumination.
Following the Grimoire, a cautionary tale of the German occultist, Karl Steiger, finishes off the work. The journal documents his descent into madness as he becomes more enamored by the Dark Goddess. Liber Lilith is probably the most confronting, yet exhilarating, book on this list. Tread carefully!
Here is a synopsis from the author that was uncovered on Archive.org.
Sexual Outlaw, Erotic Mystic: The Essential Ida Craddock, Vere Chappell
For anyone who is struggling with their spirit relationship, trying to understand the nuances and complexities of human-spirit interaction, I recommend they consider Ida Craddock’s writings. Comparing my own experience, I know the relationship she had with her spirit lover, Soph, was real and quite similar to my own. Her insights are indispensable and especially comforting for those who come from a Christian background.
Whereas Liber Lilith will scare the reader senseless, Ida Craddock provides a down-to-earth perspective on loving entities from the Boderland. Many of her writings are freely available online, but this book contains some of her most well-researched treasures; elucidating occult wisdom grounded in ancient traditions. She tells precisely what the symbolism means and how spirit-human relationships are surprisingly replete in the historical record.
Aleister Crowley enthusiastically endorsed Craddock’s writings in his own written review, proclaiming, “I may say that it is one of the most remarkable human documents ever produced…”
Demonality; or, Incubi and Succubi, Ludovico Maria Sinistrari
This is the oldest book on the succubus phenomena that I know of. Sinistrari was a Catholic exorcist and advisor to the inquisition who had a unique take on the morality of being entangled with these incorporeal lovers. He details several accounts of 16th and 17th century witnesses beset by the shenanigans of smitten demons. This book contains a surprisingly unbiased assessment on these entities, especially given the author’s religious upbringing and the intolerant political climate of the time.
My Spirit Lover Series, Atkin Michaels
These books actually originated from this blogging community. Atkin Michaels keeps a very detailed and thorough journal of both his, and his wife’s, experience with sex spirits.
I haven’t read the last two in the series, but I found the first book was great for getting an almost real-time account of what the introductory phase is like.
Adventures Beyond the Body, William Buhlman
This was one of the first books I managed to get my hands on when I began to study Astral Projection. Mr. Buhlman recounts many of his most fascinating out-of-body experiences and how his interest in the subject was kindled.
This one is a page-turner and is great for priming the subconscious mind into a lucid dreaming/OBE-mode. The more one reads about astral journeys, the more likely they are to occur!
The Phase, Michael Raduga
An earlier edition of this book is available for free as an e-book format. I highly recommend this comprehensive work; freely distributed from a very generous Russian. The “Indirect Method,” pioneered by Raduga’s research, remains the most reliable and repeatable pathway towards out-of-body travel I have yet found. If the directions are followed exactly, this shit works, and it doesn’t cost a cent.
There are also plenty of out-of-body experiences recorded in his books and they are indispensable for getting the subconscious mind into the right mode for attempting an exit.
Astral Dynamics, Robert Bruce
I have my disagreements with Robert Bruce, especially his opinion on succubi. However, ideological differences shouldn’t stop anyone from taking a deep dive into his Astral projection books. This is the most detailed work pertaining to the Astral world that I’ve come across. It contains everything from the physics of each environment, methods of travel, flora, fauna, and investigations into the Akashic Records.
The Book of Azazel and Evoking Eternity,
E. A. Koetting
E. A. Koetting is a controversial figure in the occult community. Some have derided him as nothing more than a snake-oil salesman who doesn’t have anything substantial to share. For anyone who gleaned that sort of impression from their cursory glance of his website: give the man a second chance. His books are well written and worth the read for any aspiring ceremonial magician.
The Book of Azazel is available on Youtube as a free audio book. I recommend this book to anyone who is considering venturing down the Left-Hand Path. I can corroborate his claims about how these demons work and the process of initiation. I don’t work with Azazel, but the challenging and purifying process that Koetting goes through is much the same as my own growth in the infernal current.
Evoking Eternity is another great primer from Koetting, with detailed instructions for evoking spirits and what to expect. All of his works are very handy for those wanting to take the ceremonial magick approach.
Our Ultimate Reality, Life, the Universe and Destiny of Mankind, Adrian Cooper
This is the book of everything – any spiritual or occult topic one might be interested in is probably covered in this tome. The author begins by laying out the foundation for his worldview, doing a fine job of disproving the material reductionists with appeals to reasoning, evidence, and anecdotes. Cooper believes that we are so much more than these physical bodies, and I agree with him. This writing, along with Robert Bruce’s investigations into the astral world, have helped to shape my inner-standing of who I am, where I come from, and where I’m going. Like Bruce, Mr. Cooper has a negative take on succubi, (Who doesn’t, really?) but that didn’t stop me from eating up the fascinating information contained within these pages.
Links
Succubus FAQ – Rentry (Pastebin alternative)
A Guide to Summoning Succubi – Archived Authspot Article
SUCCUPEDIA – Letter of Intent Guide
Rafe’s Summoning Guides – Option A and Option B
Astenu Sever’s 5-Step Summoning Guide – Occultist.net
SuccuSummon – Archive – Erik Vonroth’s Site, Summoning Classes.
Russian Succubus Site
Russian Succubus Forum
How to Summon a Succubus – Encyclopedia Satanica
Joy of Satan Succubus/Incubus Article
Your Ghost Stories – Incubus and Succubus Stories
Asenath Mason – Qlipothic Magick, Gnosis of the Infernal Current, Succubi and Incubi
J. D. Temple – Offers Succubus/Incubus Summoning and Binding Services
V. K. Jehannum’s Blog – Tons of rituals and articles about demons. Hosts a complete path-working for the Qlipoth and Satanism in general.
SUCCUBUS – PC Game from Madmind Studios – A gruesome first-person hack and slash featuring the succubus, Vydija, fighting through hell to regain her wings.
The Secret Commonwealth of Elves, Fauns, and Faery Lovers – R. J. Stewart – 1600s historical primary source for humans having intimate relationships with supernatural fairies, as recorded in a priest’s journal.
Aeon Byte Gnostic Radio – Podcast about the esoteric, Gnosticism, and other heretical subjects.
Videos
Everything Incubi and Succubi – J. D. Temple – YouTube Live-stream Recording
HOW TO GET A SUCCUBUS OR INCUBUS – Orlee Stewart – YouTube Video
My Kinky Supernatural Romance With a Demon – J. D. Temple – Orlee Stewart – Odysee Video
An Occult Introduction to Demon Lovers – Asenath Mason – Odysee Video
How to Summon Demon Lovers – Asenath Mason – Odysee Video
How to Perform Magick With a Demon Lover – Asenath Mason – Odysee Video
Initiation with Lilith – Asenath Mason – Odysee Video
I Gave Up Men to Have Sex with Ghosts – Amethyst Realm – YouTube Video
Succubi Sex Demons – How to Work with Them Dangers and Gifts – YouTube Video
Summoning a Succubus – A Real Account with J. S. Garrett – YouTube Video
R Wayne Steiger’s Liber Lilith Study Series – YouTube Playlist – This guy believes himself to be an ancestor of Karl Steiger from the cautionary tale contained within Liber Lilith. I thought Karl’s journal was supposed to be fiction? Who knows for certain with that book! Either way, interesting series delving into the deep symbolism of Lilith’s grimoire from a very studied perspective. He believes Liber Lilith to be more authentic than the Bible itself.
Tilus’ (Tim’s) Liber Lilith Study Series – YouTube Playlist – Tim goes over the entire book, chapter by chapter, and breaks it down to be more understandable.
Dreamgasm #1 – 2 – 3 – 4 – Erotic binaural beats videos with summoning chants for succubi.
Lady Lilith Enn Chanting (Binaural Beats, Wear Headphones) – Satan & Suns – YouTube Video
Icelandic Elf Sex – Vice Video – A woman shares her take on sex with the Icelandic elves and how copulation with humans is boring by comparison. (Similar to succubus phenomena, and even more physical.)
21 Faces of God – Excellent documentary on the Major Arcana of the Tarot
Blogs
Blogs with the Active tag have been updated within the year. Blogs with the Inactive tag haven’t been updated for more than a year. The ARCHIVE tag indicates the blog as having been deleted by the owner and the most recent snapshot from archive.org is referenced instead.
AcrossInfinity – Active – Richard’s blog. A spirit keeper in a succubus relationship. He delves into many cultures and magickal traditions in his posts.
All About Succubus – Inactive – A succubus relationship that didn’t work out.
Arkzyk – ARCHIVE – Johnthesheep, a frequent commenter here, shares his journey with succubi.
A Succubus Loved Me – Inactive – On again, off again, relationship with succubus spirits.
A Succubus Loves Me – Active – Rafe has shared a great deal about his journey with succubi. His is the most active and consistently updated blog on the subject.
Cassandra: My Succubus Lover – Inactive – Meatloaf’s account of a budding relationship with a very powerfully manifesting succubus spirit.
Chalice Diabolic – Inactive – The Valeyard’s blog. Informative posts about spirits and the occult.
Down a Different Path – Inactive – Gobtcha’s blog, chronicling his relationship with an unnamed succubus.
Earthbound Alien 81 – Inactive – Tim’s blog, where his succubi often speak for themselves in their own posts.
Faustus Crow – Active – The home of Goetia Girls and the mind-bending haunted art studio of a shaman chaos magician.
FuccASucc – Active – A blog with general information about succubi, ritual magick, and a letter ritual.
Harry Holmes – ARCHIVE – One of the first succubus blogs. The author dropped off the map years ago.
Koontzz123’s Blog – Inactive – Another succubus blogger that went dark a couple years ago.
Life With Spirits – DELETED – Spirit Walker’s blog, where he records his interactions with many different spirits. No archive. Blog was deleted December 2018.
My Paranormal Experiences – Inactive – Altarage and his relationship with the succubus, “X.”
My Spirit Love – Active – The creator of the My Spirit Love books on Amazon. Upcoming Lilith book.
The Mystery of Lilith/Succubus/Incubus – Inactive – Tilus’ blog about his experiences with Lilith and succubi. Contains discord link to Lilith study group.
Mystery’s Succubus Blog – Active – Discussing succubi, tulpas, and other topics.
My Succubus Marissa – ARCHIVE – One of the oldest blogs, about a man and his succubus, Marissa. Deleted early 2019.
My Succubus Romance – Inactive – TrippingOverGalaxies and their relationship with the succubus, Avira.
My “Succubus” Wife – Inactive – Loose Canon’s blog. He doesn’t talk about his own succubus much, but he covers a wide gamut of topics in the same vein.
Otherworldly Women and Succubi – Inactive – Investigations into succubi and like phenomena from a Christian(?) perspective. Does not appear to have a succubus relationship of their own.
Ryan’s Succubus Blog – Inactive – An older popular blog, famous for its summoning rituals.
Sceeanno’s Blog – ARCHIVE – Blogging steadily since 2013. He ostensibly had a relationship with a few different succubi, but decided that he was deluding himself later on.
Sex with Humans is Boring – Inactive – An Icelandic woman shares her experiences having sex with elves.
SLiPkid’s Virtual Shadows – Inactive – Records of conversations between a man and his spirit partner, Penelope.
Spirit Compendium – Inactive – A former Christian pastor has his life radically changed by Lilith and his succubus, “V.”
Spirit Sanctum – Inactive – Netsirt’s blog about their relationship with the angel, Gabriel.
Spirit Wife Jazmine – Inactive – Ken757’s blog. A spirit keeper, with thousands of succubi in tow.
Succubi Thoughts – Inactive – A reader of the succubus threads from -x- shares their story and advice about summoning succubi.
Succubus Collective – Inactive – A unique view of succubi as a collective.
SuccubusDesire – Inactive – Kiwi who eventually found his succubus, Luna.
SuccubusDominance – Inactive – Covers various LHP topics. Follows Asenath Mason. Has a relationship with a succubus named, Nyx.
SuccubusHolmes – Inactive – A relationship with a succubus named, “Bell.” Tens of succubi join in later.
Succubusluv – Inactive – One of the older succubus bloggers with multiple succubi. He has many EVP recordings.
Succubus Thoughts – Inactive – Crystal’s blog. She believes that she is an human incarnation of a succubus spirit.
SuccubusTrio – Inactive – A lesbian in a relationship with many succubi.
Succudude90 – Inactive – Succubi, various drugs, and getting high.
Succunation – ARCHIVE – A man in a relationship with two succubus spirits. Disappeared years ago.
SUCCUPEDIA – Inactive – Has an interesting, almost steam-punkish take on the succubus experience.
The Midnight Plane – Inactive – Blackraven888’s relationship with his succubus, Ciara.
The Succubus Study – ARCHIVE – Dalrealxgen, The Spiritual Cynic, and his relationship with the succubus, Rosalia. Lots of pop-culture critique interspersed. Blog deleted December 2018.
Yukshee Succubus Sexual Alchemy – ARCHIVE – A blog that contains instructions for summoning yukshee specifically. Blog deleted in the summer of 2019.